Everyone has their own way of dealing with a breakup and Erica Mena shared with Twitter what she does to keep herself grounded and not going backward.
It’s no secret that reality star Erica Mena and Safaree’s relationship has been pretty tumultuous.
Erica and Safaree are parents to two beautiful and very young children so as you can imagine moving forward cannot be easy.
On Twitter she shared:
Lol I set reminders in my phone. Yup – Remind my ass he cheated. Weary Nahhhh b*****hhhh I’m not gonna givin into SH****ttt because I’m reminded!!!!!!
Lol I set reminders in my phone. Yup – Remind my ass he cheated. ????Nahhhh bitchhhhh I’m not gonna givin into SHiiitttttt because I’m reminded!!!!!!
— Erica Mena (@iamErica_Mena) August 28, 2021
She also shared:
Remind myself why I had to get toxic crazy and why I’m never going backwards.
Remind myself why I had to get toxic crazy and why I’m never going backwards.
— Erica Mena (@iamErica_Mena) August 28, 2021
Her followers for the most part supported her method, telling her to keep her chin up, and remain prayed up.
Don’t let the devil win love. Stay prayed up and let God handle the rest.????
— Ms.Deanie85 (@Deanie85Ms) August 28, 2021
and:
You’re an amazing women! Doing a great job with the babies while making that bread! You’re a strong Scorpion ? ??I know you’ll be fine.
— Kim Chee is woke ✊? (@KimCHEEisWOKE) August 28, 2021
Others gave solid advice:
You will never be better for the next until you learn to forgive yourself and others! That will be the only way you move on and your heart will be willing to except another. Start healing all your wounds internally… not on SM! Good luck
— Blsdtobeme (@kidynrse) August 28, 2021
and:
I know it hurts…but remind yourself what he did hurts even more…concentrate on ur children and yourself. Let it go…don’t give in into his shit…let him be the father if he want too…you do u! Show him what he lost!
— Zuzanna Bennett (@zuzanna_bennett) August 28, 2021
Another noting that her ex leaving her alone in the hospital and being Jamaican should be enough for her to remember not to go back:
He’ll him being in Jamaica leaving you with a baby in the hospital is enough for my brain to permanently remember
— PrissyLisa (@lisarene123) August 28, 2021
It cannot be easy to deal with a public breakup, raise young children, and still have to co-parent, so we cant knock Erica’s methods, especially publicly.
We would say though, therapy is everything because there is nothing like some solid internal work!
How do you deal with breakups? Do you remind yourself of the reason you broke up in the first place?
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