What’s life without balance right? Earlier today we shared a post that shared threads of women telling their stories about how they knew their man hated them. It was a doozy and hard to read!
As the Universe would have it, one Twitter user decided to turn things around posing the question, “when did you realize he loved you?” In an effort to get some positive stories going.
when did you realize he loved you? let’s get some positive stories going
— Sat Sat 💋 (@AfroFlytina) July 13, 2021
Afroflytina made it clear that this in no way diminishes the experiences of women who are maltreated but this was her way to celebrate love and light.
see below
Under no circumstances was this to minimize the maltreatment women have been tweeting about on that other tweet. This is just to celebrate love/light.. there’s enough negativity on the innanet.
— Sat Sat 💋 (@AfroFlytina) July 13, 2021
Check them out:
The way he engages with me. Even when he’s upset… he’s always gentle with me.
— MuuMuu Maven (@MothaBoardPrez) July 14, 2021
here :
We were on our second date/first official one. He came down to NYC to visit and when it came time to pay for the meal I did the fake dive towards my wallet. He stopped me and said, “if you’re going to be my girl I have to pay for you.” That was 11 years ago. Happily married now.
— Danie Steel (@LaCochiLoco) July 14, 2021
and:
when we used to live in diff cities (we was just friends at the time) we’d ft every night and id always fall asleep first. one time he thought i was sleep but i was in and out and i heard him speaking affirmations to me about the success, happiness, and other things i deserved 🥲
— King Anj. 🧨🌪 (@anjiniazhar) July 14, 2021
and this here:
When I heard him pray for my anxiety I literally almost cried … natural reassurance, above and beyond my love language, Literally casually mentioned I like love letters and he started emailing me one every single day, always helping me network and just so much more…. He 6’6 too
— Cephas (@jaylOkafor) July 14, 2021
and:
We were on the phone & I started having a panic attack. I hung up & texted him “sorry I get panic attacks sometimes & just need to thug it out for second” the next day we met up and he had researched & printed the best methods to help someone cope with a panic attacks
— JJ (@L0v3chLD) July 14, 2021
and this:
When I gave up on everything, even myself. And he came and uplifted my whole entire spirit by making everything easy for me. Paid my rent for the month, picked my groceries up, made sure ALL my kids were straight and made sure I remembered my potential. Now im back and better.
— 😈♑️ (@thatssorayell) July 14, 2021
and when he pays attendtion:
He got me gifts that are all about me and very useful. I get cold alot- he got me an electric blanket. I mentioned how cool air fryers are once, he got me one. My phone always dies, he got me a portable charger. I use all of those things constantly. He paid attention!!
— KettyJoeRose (@beginbright1) July 14, 2021
awww:
i told him i never had a prom date. one evening he came over, turned some music on and made me get out my bed to slow dance with him. he called it my prom re-do 🥺.
— regina 😉 (@staydope_xoxo) July 14, 2021
It felt good to read these stories! For the entire thread, click here.
