During a discussion with Erika D. Smith at the Los Angeles Times Festival of Books on April 20, Kerry Washington shared that she initially hesitated to accept payment for her book proposal due to a surprising family revelation.
The Scandal actress, aged 47, spoke about discovering that her father, Earl, was not her biological father just as she was preparing to sell her memoir, Thicker Than Water.
“I found out that my dad who raised me is not my biological father,” Washington said. “And it was something that my parents had intended to not tell me ever, but they were kind of forced into telling me.”
“I felt like if I was going to write about myself, I had to write about these deeper truths,” the actress continued. “I had to include this much bigger life-changing information.”
According to PEOPLE Washington said that she originally set out to write a book about the lessons she learned while playing her Scandal character, Olivia Pope.
Once she learned the news about her father, she tried to get the money back from her book proposal.
“I tried to get the money back and everything, but eventually I decided to try to write that book even if it was just for myself and my kids and not to share with anybody else,” she said.
Thicker Than Water, which was published in 2023, saw the actress opening up about a number of personal moments throughout her life.
Washington wrote of the panic attacks and sexual assault she experienced as a child, and of having an abortion.
Speaking with Smith, the actress said that learning the truth about her father actually allowed for her and her parents to become closer.
“One of the first impulses that I had when they shared this information with me was to tell my dad how much I loved him and to tell him that nothing was going to change and that nothing would be different,” Washington said. “And that really felt like my deepest truth and it still is, and yet everything has changed.”
“My love for him…my love and my intimacy with my parents has deepened with this exchange of information because I think when we keep secrets, particularly family secrets, it’s usually because we’re so afraid that if that truth gets revealed that we won’t be lovable anymore, that we won’t be loved, that there will be resentment and anger about whatever it is the secret was that was kept,” Washington continued. “And so I think once the weight of that secret got lifted, there was a lot more room for my parents and for me to be who we really are with each other.”
Kerry is Married to Nnamdi Asomugha and they have 3 children together, Isabelle and Caleb from their marriage and a daughter from her husband’s previous relationship.