Recently there was a viral post that shared notes about what men wish women knew. The topic sought to tackle some of the things, guys don’t say but that they wish women knew about them.
Watch two guys tackle the question on Instagram live here.
Mental Health Therapist @crystalthetherapist did a similar survey, but this time with 15 women.
The ladies were asked a similar question.
What do they wish men knew that they don’t often talk about!
The answers had us nodding our head and we had to share them with a bit of commentary here:
We have to admit, we were splittish on this one for many reasons.
We definitely agree that attention and honestly are up there with sex, but the words “worth more” had some of us questioning the difference between a Virgo and an Aquarius.
Some of us Aquarian’s can live without a ton of attention, but yall Virgo’s!
Yall on another level.
Survey says:
All in all, we agree with this statement.
Totally agree! Survey says:
We want to know, that we look good, we are smart and most of all that we are appreciated!
This one was interesting, sometimes, we cant be bothered to do a bunch of explaining, and sometimes it’s difficult to pinpoint exactly what’s wrong.
We get but one week a month where we are not plagued with a bunch of hormones and emotions, so we do spend a ton of time deciphering our own feelings, much less explaining them to someone.
But don’t try us though! If we need to get it out we will.
survey says:
Oh, we preaching now!
Survey says:
Cher once said that a man is like a dessert, not a necessity but a luxury. Can we reminisce on that real quick:
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We don’t know if this is exactly what the survey meant but we do think nen are the coolest!
This one was profound, and we totally agree that balance makes the world go around. This isn’t something we speak about often, but we know that energy can be misinterpreted.
Can we just hug the women that said this! WE DO NOT WANT TO SEND PICS TO YOUR PHONE!
survey says:
Sure do, and when you are on one thing and we are on another, sometimes it is difficult to just flip the switch. Women need grace for all the roles we play, eventually, the hat will come off.
Survey says:
YES YES YES! Love us the way we want to be loved, not everyone likes rose petals all over the bathroom and on our good sheets. (just me.. ok) – No disrespect to those women that do!
But some of us prefer a flight to Jamaica, fully planned! Some of us prefer picnics but the lake and some of us just want you to buy us some food from down the block.
Figure out her love language, and win your deepest desires.
Comment below and let us know if the survey hit it on the head for you. What do you wish your partner knew that you aren’t necessarily sharing.